Or raising a happy, confident, well-rounded puppy
By Sally Bradbury
Everyone knows the importance of socialising a puppy, but it isn’t always easy to get it right. Check below to see if you are on the right track:
Choosing Your Puppy
Good
- Research your chosen breed
- Choose a reputable breeder or rescue
- Be prepared for the third degree from the breeder or rescue
- Be prepared to go on a waiting list for a puppy
- See the litter with Mum at least once before buying, and details (including a picture) of Dad
Bad
- Buying a puppy from an online advert
- Buying a puppy from an ‘all singing, all dancing’ website that always has puppies available
- Buying a puppy from someone who will sell to you without checking your suitability
- Buying an older puppy that the breeder has hung onto before deciding that they are not going to keep it, but did not socialise
- Deciding you want a puppy and buying one tomorrow
Consequences
A happy, confident, well-rounded puppy…
… or run the risk that your puppy has been raised in squalid conditions with a sickly, nervous, stressed Mum; stress that has affected the puppies in-utero and in the nest.
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People
Good
- Take puppy out in your arms or a sling and watch people from a safe distance. Do this in many different environments, all within your puppy’s comfort zone
- Always allow puppy the choice to interact with people or not
Bad
- ‘Pass the puppy’ at puppy class
- Letting strangers approach and touch your puppy
- Encouraging people to pick up your puppy
- Allowing people to ‘discipline’ your puppy
Consequences
A happy, confident, well-rounded puppy…
… or a puppy that is scared or wary of strangers, and is reactive to people out on walks or visitors in the home…
… or a puppy that runs up to people in the park, jumps all over visitors, has zero manners and zero recall.
Dogs
Good
- Walks and play dates with carefully selected, sensible adult dogs and other compatible pups
- A good puppy class with the emphasis on dog/owner interaction in the company of others
Bad
- Puppy parties
- Puppy classes with free-for-all play sessions
- Dog parks
- Encouraging or allowing your on-lead puppy to approach unknown dogs
- Letting your puppy play with every dog they meet at the park
- Getting two puppies at the same time or a few months apart and letting them entertain each other all day
- Allowing a puppy to spend all day with, and be a pest to, an older dog
- Letting other dogs ‘teach him a lesson’
Consequences
A happy, confident, well-rounded puppy…
… or a puppy that is scared or wary of dogs and becomes reactive to dogs when out…
… or a puppy that thinks every dog he sees is his best mate, runs to dogs when off lead and is reactive when on lead, has zero manners, and zero recall.
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The importance of early socialising cannot be overemphasised. This must be done carefully and considerately, while ensuring that stress is kept to a minimum. Experiences should be positive, as well as being in the best interests of the puppy. This will ensure that he/she grows up to be a happy, confident, well-rounded dog.